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Meet the woman who spends five months of every year on a cruise ship

At 82, she found a new way to live and a family at sea after loss.

A Holland America ship.
A Holland America ship.
Louise Goldsbury
Updated April 29 2026 - 11:53am, first published 6:00am

Jolanda, 82, is matter-of-fact about the reason she starts every year on a world cruise. "After my husband died, I had to keep going. I can't feel sorry for myself. I get up and go. My alternative is staying home alone in the cold and rain, cooking and cleaning," she says.

I meet Jolanda, a Vancouver-based Dutchwoman, on Holland America Line's 133-day Grand World Voyage. While I'm on board for only a short segment, she's doing the whole journey in an inside cabin for $65,000. "I saved all my life. I don't want to die with a full bank account," she says.

Jolanda's first cruise was Alaska in 1994, before taking another 80 cruises with her late husband. Since 2023, she has done annual world voyages, spending January to May at sea.

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The main appeal is the "floating community" of familiar faces. "When I come back to the guests and crew, I hug more people in a week than six months at home," Jolanda says.

Days are filled by trivia, lectures, crafts, cards, mahjong, and knitting blankets for sick children, part of an initiative called Project Linus. Her healthy routine involves eating lightly, no desserts and walking three kilometres a day around the promenade deck.

Rather than booking excursions, she prefers to explore towns independently, stopping for a coffee or a beer.

A good travel agent can help secure the best deal, especially if you book as soon as the itinerary is released. Only a small deposit is required, before paying in full 90 days before departure. Jolanda also recommends getting medical and cancellation insurance, and carrying paper copies of documents in case you lose your phone.

Menin Gate Memorial to the Missing in Belgium.
Menin Gate Memorial to the Missing in Belgium.

Packing for five months is minimal, as "nobody cares if you wear the same clothes". Free or discounted laundry is offered to some passengers, depending on the stateroom category, fare type or early booking promotions.

"The service is amazing because the crew feel appreciated. I love Holland America's itineraries, if not thrown off by weather or war strife, but we don't get upset if ports are missed. We're just happy to be cruising," she says.

"On world cruises, it's all about the fun of being here, like family and friends getting together, and meeting new people along the way. Every January, I feel like I've come home."

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Four types of cruises commemorate ANZAC Day: Murray River paddle-wheeler cruises; Turkish gulet tours that visit Gallipoli; themed ocean cruises around Turkey; and a new river cruise launching next year. Mat McLachlan Battlefield Tours has joined forces with AMA Waterways for a journey through Holland and Belgium. Escorted by McLachlan, this seven-night river cruise explores three chapters of military history, from Napoleon's defeat at Waterloo to WWII's Operation Market Garden. ANZAC Day 2027 is spent at the sacred ground of Ypres Salient, where our soldiers fought in WWI, and includes a morning service at the Menin Gate Memorial to the Missing. See: battlefields.com.au/history-cruises

Louise Goldsbury
Louise is the Cruise Explorer columnist for ACM. Over the past 20 years, she has sailed on more than 100 ocean, river and expedition cruises in seven continents.

My all-time favourite destination is … Antarctica, but three times is greedy.

Next on my bucket list is … Africa, Maldives, Philippines, Cuba, NZ subantarctic islands, Iceland, Greenland, and three months on a round-the-world cruise.

My top travel tip is … If you're turned off by the stereotype of big ships, start with your dream destination and book the smallest ship you can afford - preferably all-inclusive, so you can fully relax and enjoy.